Navigate change, identity, & becoming
When life is full & no longer fitting. This intimate, high-touch mentorship is where you’re fully met so the next version of you can finally emerge.
Something’s changing — even if you can’t name it yet
Midlife has a way of bringing questions to the surface. Not in a dramatic breakdown kind of way (though that happens too). More like a slow, steady unraveling of the version of you that’s no longer quite right.
Maybe life looks great on paper. You’ve built a lot — career, family, relationships. You’ve been the capable one. The reliable one. The one who gets it done.
And the success you’ve built doesn’t speak to all of you.
You’re starting to ask …
What’s actually true for me?
What’s quietly asking to be felt, expressed, or left behind?
Who am I now when the old ways don’t quite fit & the next version isn’t fully clear?
Girl, there’s nothing wrong with you. This is the moment many women arrive at in midlife — often silently, often carrying more than anyone knows.
You’re not here for a fix.
You’re here to listen more closely to the life that’s becoming.
What you’re moving through deserves space
This isn’t just a phase. It’s a reckoning. Midlife brings real shifts across every domain of life, often all at once. We explore it all:
Intimacy & relationships
Marriages change. Husbands have their own midlife crisis. Friendships shift. Roles with kids or family evolve. You want to be more loving while being met with honestly & presence.
Business & finance
You’ve outgrown how you used to work. There’s a call to create something with more meaning — even if you don’t know what that is yet.
Health & body sense
Your body feels different. Hormones, pain, energy, self-image: it all hits differently now. And you want a relationship with aging that feels respectful & alive.
Impact & legacy
You want to leave a mark in a real, lasting way & make a difference in other people’s lives. You’re asking: What difference do I actually want to make while I’m here?
Mentorship in full, radical permission of who you are
This is different from life coaching, performance optimization, or mindset work (though that’s where I started years ago). This is mentorship shaped by the truth of your life right now — with full permission to bring the parts you usually keep hidden.
We’ll explore what’s actually happening in your Field — the energetic patterns shaping your relationships, desires, emotions, & decisions — beyond the stories you’ve been telling.
Through FieldSpeak™ — a unique blend of neuroscience, quantum energetics & ancient spiritual truths — we’ll work directly with the invisible energetic structures shaping your reality, your personal “recipes” underlying how life’s showing up.
Together we’ll create space for energetic shifts that ripple into synchronicity, impact, & momentum as you:
Uncover the unseen dynamics influencing your patterns, choices, & relationships
Experience your unique energetics influencing your reality & shift them with conscious intention
Feel more aliveness, possibility, & creative power
Untether from good-girl conditioning & step into full-spectrum presence
This is Field-first mentorship. You’ll be witnessed in greater coherence, supported in expanding your capacity, & invited to live from the energy that already wants to move through you.
From my path to YOURS
The women I’ve worked with for over 12 years are smart, thoughtful, accomplished, & have built beautiful lives. Somewhere between the roles & routines, another voice starts to speak: “There’s more.”
I know that voice well. I’d done the right things—invested six figures into personal growth, worked with the best in coaching & spirituality—& still, I felt flat. Worse, I felt guilty for even feeling that way, like wanting more meant I wasn’t grateful enough for what I had.
What changed everything? (nope, it wasn’t hormones).
It was experiencing my personal energetics, the unseen forces shaping life.
That’s what this work holds space for. Now, I’m here to walk beside you—helping you listen closely to what’s calling, shift your energy, & reconnect to the parts of yourself that have been waiting all along.
Qualifications AlchemE Mentor® FieldSpeak™ facilitator
Newfield Certified Ontological Coach
MSc specializing in behaviour change
mentoring for women in midlife
WAYS to work together
FieldSpeak™ Session
1:1 ENERGETIC MENTORING session
This option is best if you'd love to give mentoring a try before committing to a longer engagement. You'll get a 60-minute call, personalized practices, & limited DM follow-up support.
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An initial 60-min session; subsequent sessions are 30-mins
Exploration of one domain of life
Weekday DM follow-up call for up to 2 weeks after your call to check-in
Personalized notes, practices, & next steps delivered after the call
$180
Audacious Living
3-MONTH EXPERIENCE
This is for you if you desire a softer, intuitive, & more meaningful life with hands-on, high-touch support and have a wingwoman in your life. You'll get calls every other week, tailored weekly practices, & priority DM access for real-time support.
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60-minute calls every other week for 3 months
Comprehensive intake to map your starting point
Every session is unique & shaped to what’s present
Playful homework tailored to you
Weekday DM support for those in-between moments
Bonus: quarterly visioning for package renewals
$1400
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Here’s how we begin
01 | FILL OUT THE APPLICATION
Start by completing the application form below so that I can best serve you.
02 | Personalized consultation
We’ll start our meaningful partnership with an intake to see what’s present & connect with the future
03 | Your tailored mentoring journey
With ongoing support & intuitive guidance, we’ll create a path that works for you.
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Energetics are the unseen framework of your reality—the connection between how you observe yourself & the ripple effects you have on the world around you.
Most people think that changing circumstances, other people, or their actions are gonna get them what they want. But real transformation happens when you shift your conscious attention to the energetic field that connects us all.
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You don’t have to … & that’s part of what we can look at. Most people come in with a feeling—restlessness, uncertainty, or a pull toward something more. We’ll explore together & uncover what’s next for you.
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You’re not into exploring your edges or trying out unconventional ways of seeing your world
You want traditional results-based or C-suite executive coaching, where you set a desired outcome (eg, hit an income milestone) at the beginning of the coaching relationship. Often these goals are coming from a less coherent version of yourself.
You’re looking for expert advice, tactics, or strategies right off the bat — the how-tos. We first start with coherence & alignment with your bigger why, then the hows & whos will appear.
You’re unwilling to be lovingly challenged. The truth will set you free.
You expect a transformation within the time-constraints of a single call. Disrupting an old pattern may require time to marinade in the real world. Part of our work is to start noticing when shifts happen outside of our calls.
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You bet. Please mention this on our initial call together.
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Book an Insight Call with me to discuss if working together is right for you: ascendi.co/lets-chat
I offer a select number of pro bono and discounted sessions each month.
let’s make it YOURS
The life you want isn’t ‘someday’—it’s ready for you now, so let’s start. Pick what feels good, or hop on a call to sort it out. It’s just us, a coffee, & a chat about what’s next.